The Player Identifier Chatbot
Chatbot
You feel it. We help you say it.
When something feels wrong but you can’t explain why, our system gives you the words to name it.
The Player Identifier Chatbot helps you analyze both past and present relationships to identify patterns of deception, control, or unhealthy behavior that may have slipped under your radar.
Whether you’re unsure about a current partner, reflecting on a past relationship, or noticing repeating patterns, this is your personal AI-powered risk assessment tool. It can distinguish between early-stage red flags that require action and harmless quirks that can be safely ignored.
Think of it as an expert counsel of wise women and survivor knowledge, built on years of research and experience. It’s not therapy. It’s not journaling. It’s not Reddit guessing games. It’s precision behavioral pattern detection.
How It Works
The Player Identifier Chatbot uses FIA’s advanced behavioral dataset and proprietary AI model trained to recognize the subtle tactics and behavioral patterns that most psychologists and therapists are not taught to detect.
Describe what’s happening—whether it’s a single conversation or the overall dynamic—and the system guides you through structured analysis to uncover hidden patterns.
The Discernment Checklist
Is it manipulation or miscommunication?
Not every red flag means danger. The Discernment Checklist helps you slow down and ask: is this real harm—or just human imperfection?
Ask yourself:
Is this a miscommunication or manipulation?
Could this reflect neurodivergence rather than manipulation?
Is this person simply emotionally immature or something more dangerous?
Am I confusing charm with genuine respect?
Could these “little jokes” actually be emotional undermining?
Are the apologies I’m getting sincere or strategic?
Is this love bombing or genuine affection?
The goal isn’t to label too quickly—it’s to understand what you’re seeing before you decide what to do.
The Risk Forecast Checklist
If miscommunication isn’t the problem, the Risk Forecast Checklist helps you spot early warning signs before they grow into something harder to escape.
Watch for signs like:
Does this match a known predator profile?
Is there a pattern here that I haven’t connected yet?
Could they be subtly shifting my sense of reality?
Is my “gut feeling” trying to warn me?
Are they using confusion to keep me off balance?
If I walk away today, what would I be protecting myself from?
Would I want my closest friend to stay in this situation?
Will this behavior escalate over time or fade away?
Is this relationship likely to become controlling or obsessive?
Are you underestimating danger because you’re doubting your own instincts?
This checklist gives you the language and foresight to move before you’re trapped.
ChatGPT
Why not just use ChatGPT?
General-purpose chatbots like ChatGPT are designed to be helpful, supportive, and non-confrontational. They often tell you what you want to hear, softening concerns and avoiding uncomfortable conclusions.
The Player Identifier Chatbot is different by design. FIA built this tool specifically to detect dangerous behavioral patterns, surface red flags, and provide clear-eyed risk analysis—whether or not it’s what you want to hear. It draws on years of specialized research and a structured questioning framework to help you recognize patterns of manipulation that would go unnoticed by generic AI tools.
psychologist
Why not just see a psychologist?
We fully support psychotherapy and this tool is not a replacement for professional counseling. Therapy helps you process, heal, and recover. The Player Identifier Chatbot does something different: it detects patterns of manipulation and deception with speed and precision.
Our system is built specifically to recognize predatory behaviors and dangerous dynamics—something many therapists are not trained to detect, as manipulation and coercive control are rarely part of clinical training.
In some cases, using this tool may help you predict the emotional aftermath of a harmful relationship and give you insight into whether trauma-informed therapy will be beneficial. FIA does not provide trauma counseling, but we can help you understand if that level of support may be needed.
What You’ll Gain
Early warning detection for relationships you can’t fully decode
Insights into specific “player types” and their behavioral signatures
The ability to re-analyze past relationships to avoid repeating dangerous patterns
A private, judgment-free tool for exploring what your body already senses
Differentiation between manipulation vs. misunderstandings or neurodivergence
Recommendations for next steps: survivor content, safe therapist referrals, Listening Module, or ChatBoy red flag training
Guidance on when to safely exit: not too soon out of fear, not too late when entanglement makes leaving harder
Part of the Agency OS System
The Player Identifier Chatbot is a core pillar of FIA’s Agency OS, the world’s first comprehensive social discernment system. Our philosophy: if you never name past victimization, you cannot fully learn from it—and you are likely to relive it.
FIA products are designed to work together as an integrated system. The Player Identifier helps you articulate what happened and what is happening now. Our unique category system and behavioral vocabulary give you the tools to describe patterns, understand them, and anticipate what may come next. By giving you the language and predictive frameworks others lack, we help you move from confusion to clarity—and from constant surprise to confident foresight.
This tool works alongside our full FIA ecosystem: Listening Lab, Survivor Content, ChatBoy, and the upcoming Toxic Workplace simulations.
⚠ Strong Advisory: Please Read Before Using
This tool is powerful and works fast. Please prepare yourself emotionally before starting.
The Player Identifier Chatbot is not like anything else on the market. It is faster and more accurate than any human therapist at spotting manipulative patterns and predatory behaviors. What might take 20 therapy sessions to uncover can surface in a single interaction here.
Because of that, we urge you to be ready. If you believe you may be trapped in a harmful relationship but cannot safely leave yet, we recommend starting with FIA’s educational videos, ChatBoy red flag training, or our Listening Module first.